First meeting is undoubtedly the most important part, as it immediately indicates whether or not the notion of the person you’ve created in your mind is real. Now that the long months of communication via e-mail are over, and you are impatiently waiting for the meeting, it is worth to know how to make it perfect for both of you.
If your woman is Russian she will most certainly appreciate flowers. Don’t go overboard with the big bouquet, flowers must be modest, but elegant. If your relationship has progressed to the point where you already freely discuss any intimate details – it will be welcomed if you kiss her. However, in case you aren’t certain how she will react – don’t do it just yet.
First meeting will give you the best notion about the real intentions of the woman – if she invites you home to meet her parents and family – you can be 100% sure that she’s really into you and your relationship is real one.
However, if she starts dragging you around shopping malls demanding presents from you or dinners in expensive restaurants – sadly, but she’s a mere gold digger, who successfully played you up to this point. Nevertheless, even in this situation you shouldn’t be disappointed – at least you understand it now, before you married her.
Parents’ opinion does not pay a vital role in Russian woman’s decision process, but if you feel like she is the one you were looking for – try to get her relatives to like you. In order to do that – smile more often, you can also bring some small gifts, but this is not mandatory. The woman you’ve chosen will be very happy if her family likes you.
In Russia family ties are very important and even if you marry this woman and take her to your country – she will still miss her family and will want to call them or at least to chat with them in Skype. Just remember that no one is ideal and every person has flaws. The key to the successful marriage is the ability to be tolerant with the things that you may not understand this is especially vital if you’re living in an International marriage.
However situations can be different and if you feel like you want to sweep away your girl with the great bouquet of roses and some sophisticated present - she will surely be flattered and happy. You’ll give her a reason to be brag about you and admire you. But that will of course, happen if she really is into you.
But if you run into a scammer the situation will be drastically different. Such meeting will make her think that you are full of money and just wait to be stripped of it. Therefore, it is worth to be moderate in showing your admiration. Thus you won’t lose anything in any case.
The real girl will be glad to see you and grateful for any attention, but the gold digger won’t think that you’re that rich and will not put you through the awkward situation where she asks you to buy her something really expensive and you will be forced to say no.
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