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What to be honest about when on a Russian date?
Russian women hate lies. Of course this can be said about everyone, but Russian women prefer harsh truth to sweet lie. Don’t forget that they grew up in the country where living conditions are very bad, they are not accustomed to luxury, and they will not dismiss you as a potential husband if you don’t have much money.
So how and when do you start telling them more details about you? First of all your picture that you put on your profile must correspond to the reality – thus, those women who will be interested in you will write you and those who don’t – will not. Don’t try to create an image of a macho man – keep in mind that appearance doesn’t have so much meaning for Russian women as it does for western women.
In Russia ladies aren’t looking for studs that go to gym and spend all time on trying to look sexy. They are looking for a reliable, kind and caring person to share their life with. In Russia concepts of beauty are strictly assigned – women must be beautiful and look after themselves, men – not so much. It is weird and seems to be unfair but it is what it is.
Another important detail – don’t lie that you don’t have any kids if you do. Eventually, the woman you choose will find out about them and will feel deeply offended that you’ve misled her. Most Russian women are excellent mothers and love kids. So the fact that you have kids won’t affect their decision to try to build a serious relationship with you.
You must also tell the truth from the beginning about your intentions. In most cases Russian women address marriage agencies if they want to get married. Therefore, if you are just planning to date a woman for some time – you should let her know. By the way – there are a lot of dating sites, where younger girls just want to hang out and spent time together and, for example go the places they can’t afford to by themselves.
However, if you are looking for a life partner – you should know that women will be expecting a serious attitude from you. Family ties are very important for Russian women; therefore she will most certainly try to find out more about your family and friends.
Most Russians, not excluding women, prefer few but close friends to big companies. However, if you are the kind of person who likes to hang out with a lot of people – you should tell her that in advance and she will prepare herself to meet all of them when she’ll come to visit you in your country.
Of all the things that you must be honest about with the women you like, the most important is that you have to let her know what you expect from her in your relationship. She must know in advance if you, for example want her to look after your kids from other marriage, or if you’re living in the country and she’ll have to help you with your duties on the farm. Such things are tremendously important as they determine where both partners are on the same plate and have the same image of the living together.
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