All people are different and it is only natural that their tastes are the same. While choosing your potential partner you need to sit down and create a list of qualities that you are looking for and also think about the vices, which you will or will not be able to tolerate in a woman. After you determine the personality of the woman you’re looking for, you can start searching for the woman you want to spend your life with.
If you can’t find such a woman in your surroundings – it’s ok. There are 7 billion of people in the world and half of them are women. This means that somewhere the woman of your dreams awaits you and even if she doesn’t live in your country – modern technology will grant an easy access to communication with her and to the possibility to take her to your country if the relationship goes well.
Assuming that you’ve decided to try to look for a life partner in another country, say Russia, where women are extremely beautiful and low maintenance, - there is no doubt that you know how she must look like. Blond, brunette, redhead – Russian women are versatile and beautiful. However you should know from the start that you cannot chase them all at once.
Make a list of women whom you like physically – this list can include as many women as you want or find attractive. The next step will be to look through their photos and profiles to get a general notion of what each of the women in your list is about. After that you will inevitably narrow down your search, as you’ll find features you wouldn’t want to see in your second half.
After your list becomes shorter you can start sending the e-mails. Start with something decent and not overly flirty. Show your interest, but don’t be pushy. After you’ve sent out e-mail to all the women in your list – wait for their replies and strike out those, who did not reply to you. Thus, you’ll receive the list of the women whom you like and who are interested in you.
The next step will be further communication via e-mail. In about 3-4 letters you will be able to get a notion of the personalities of these women. After that you can strike out those, whom you don’t like that much. You’ll get a short list of women whose personalities are appealing to you and here is the time to go to the next step, which is phone call.
It would certainly be great if the woman you’ve chosen can speak English, but even if she doesn’t – it’s ok. All the legitimate agencies have interpreters, who will be happy to offer you their services. You can schedule a Skype or Phone call with the women you like, separately of course. After seeing them and talking to them you will be able to decide which women are more attracted to you and eager to continue relationship.
Finally, when only 2-3 women remain in your list you can schedule a visit to their country to meet them all in one visit and to determine which one of them you like the best. Naturally it’s not worth to tell any of them that you’re meeting other women too. Just be yourself and see if any of these women are truly fit to be your wife and if they are – then congratulations, you’ve found your second half!
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